August 7, 2008

Its Not the Childs Fault; Believe it or Not, Poor Parenting is the Main Cause of Bad Behaviour in Children

By Anne Sprigpitt

They wont admit it as often parents dont know any different, but often the problem is due to poor parenting which manifests itself in bad behaviour in the child. This in turn has a negative affect on the home and work life of everyone in the household as strife and conflict dominates the family.

Anne Sprigpitt, owner of http://www.Parenting-Tips.info says, 'Most parents dont realise it, but their actions have a direct influence on the behaviour of their child whether they are a toddler or a teen. Almost everything a child learns in the first few years of its life is from their parents and it is all stored in the childs memory for a later date.'

'The biggest problems are due to a lack of discipline, boundaries and standards, and most importantly a lack of affection and display of their love for the child. However, these can easily be resolved by applying simple parenting principles and strategies which can have an immediate and dramatic impact on the behaviour of the child.'

'In many cases, children who are repeatedly violent and disruptive in school are found to have deeply rooted problems at home, caused by bad parenting. Once this is realised and acknowledged a number of techniques can be implemented and significant improvements are often found in the childs behaviour in a matter of a few weeks or even days.'

Parenting is not easy, but it is not hard either, provided you establish a loving two way relationship with the child, set boundaries and discipline the child appropriately when necessary.

For more help and advice on parenting visit http://www.Parenting-Tips.info and find all the tips you need for successful parenting.

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June 30, 2007

It's Not the Childs Fault; Believe it or Not, Poor Parenting is the Main Cause of Bad Behaviour in Children.

By Anne Sprigpitt Manchester, England - Kids can be frustrating, annoying and down right infuriating at times and yet you're still expected to love and care for the little 'angels' through thick and thin.
They won't admit it as often parents don't know any different, but often the problem is due to poor parenting which manifests itself in bad behaviour in the child. This in turn has a negative affect on the home and work life of everyone in the household as strife and conflict dominates the family.
Anne Sprigpitt, owner of http://www.Parenting-Tips.info says, "Most parents don't realise it, but their actions have a direct influence on the behaviour of their child whether they are a toddler or a teen. Almost everything a child learns in the first few years of its life is from their parents and it is all stored in the child's memory for a later date."
"The biggest problems are due to a lack of discipline, boundaries and standards, and most importantly a lack of affection and display of their love for the child. However, these can easily be resolved by applying simple parenting principles and strategies which can have an immediate and dramatic impact on the behaviour of the child."
"In many cases, children who are repeatedly violent and disruptive in school are found to have deeply rooted problems at home, caused by bad parenting. Once this is realised and acknowledged a number of techniques can be implemented and significant improvements are often found in the child's behaviour in a matter of a few weeks or even days."
Parenting is not easy, but it is not hard either, provided you establish a loving two way relationship with the child, set boundaries and discipline the child appropriately when necessary.

For more help and advice on parenting visit http://www.Parenting-Tips.info and find all the tips you need for successful parenting.

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July 2, 2008

5 Tips to Finding the Right School for Your Child

By Nicole Anderson

Choosing the right school is one of the most critical decisions in your childs development. As hard as it is to admit, your child will spend more time at school with teachers and classmates then at home.

After making my way through the school search I would like to share my hard-earned tips to making your search easier.

First you will need to decide Public or Private School

Some districts have highly rated public schools and others do not. Private schooling does not necessarily mean religious based school. There are of course plenty of religious based schools but there are also non-sequitarian private schools to choose from.

There are many things to consider when deciding 'public or private':

1 - Consider both Public and Private School Options

Public School Option

The state education system is always under fire. That doesnt mean all public schools are bad. Do some simple research and see what you think about the school(s) in your area.

- What is the local public school like?

Tour the public school during school hours. This can be arranged with the admissions office. Look at the children who attend. Are these the friends you would like for your child? Peek in the class room(s), if allowed. Does it seem organized? Meet the teacher who would be teaching your child. Ask about schedule for school and class room size.

You can find out the statistics for your local public school at http://www.publicschoolreview.com. This site will give you information on the schools performance for statewide testing, student to teacher ratio compared to state average, ethnicity of students attending, etc. It will give you great information on the school.

Private School Option

Your can find out what private schools are in your area by visiting http://www.privateschoolreview.com/. This site will give you detailed information on number of students who attend, class size, student to teach ratio, etc.

When choosing a private school a couple things to consider are:

- Does the schools religious or ethics and moral instruction fall in line with how you want your child to be raised.

- Is it within reasonable commuting distance from your home

- Can you afford it?

Although this is definitely not the most important point, it must be evaluated. Private schooling is not cheap. Prices normally range from $3500-$8000 per child per year. Most schools offer payment options generally structured to include an enrollment fee and then 6-12 month payment plans. Some private schools offer scholarships based on the childs academic performance and/or the parents income. If you decide to enroll your child in a private school long term affordability is important. You do not want to have your child transferred due to lack of tuition payment.

2 - Do Your Homework on the School(s)

Before deciding on a school you should do the following:

- Call the school and ask for a brochure or packet on the school - Tour the school(s) you are considering - Meet the teacher(s) that will be teaching your child - If possible, view a class while in session - Ask questions, any and all questions you may have - Find out about class size - Know about the school schedule. Does it work with your life schedule?

Once you have narrowed the search down to one or two schools have your spouse (if applicable) and child tour the school(s). Often you can schedule a tour with the school or attend an open house or parent meeting night.

Talk to your child and spouse about the school:

1 - Do you like the school? Do you feel comfortable there?

2 - Does your child like the school and feel comfortable there?

3 - Was the curriculum up to your standards?

4 - What was the education level of the students in the class?

5 - Was it clean?

3 - ENROLL

Once you have made your decision enroll your child. This is particularly important with private school. Space is limited and will fill up. Kindergarten classes are notorious for this. You can enroll your child as early as a year ahead of time to ensure they get in to the school of our choice.

4 - Waiting Lists for Private Schools

Waiting lists exist at private schools that are full, meaning the class you are trying to enroll your child in has reach maximum enrollment. You can put your childs name on a waiting list. They will call you if a space becomes available. Make sure to ask what number you are on the waiting list. You may have a chance is you are #1-5, but even then it is only a chance. Do not rely on this waiting list. Find an alternative school and if they call in the meantime, GREAT!

5 - Talk with Your Child

Once school has started talk to your child. Ask him how school is going? Do you like the teachers? Have you made friends? Your childs responses will give you an indication of how the school is working out. Also, watch your childs behavior. Sometimes a childs behavior changes mildly after being introduced into a new group of children and environment. This is nothing that a good home life and parenting cant handle quickly though. The only cause for concern is drastic negative behavior changes. If this is the case you may want to talk to your child more seriously about what has been going on at school and have a consultation with the teacher. Normally children are good with change and adapt easily.

I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, or psychologist. I am a child care giver, a child counselor, a mentor, child advisor and an expert on my child, which is simply means I am a MOM! I hope this information will help you find the right school for your child. I didnt know where to start and since I write articles for work I thought it would be great to share what I have learned through this process in the hopes of helping the fellow parents in their quest for the right school for their child.

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June 25, 2008

How to Find the Right School for Your Child

By Nicole Anderson

If you are like me you probably lost sleep over what school to enroll your child in. This is especially the case with people who move to new school districts or moving people moving their pre-schooler to kindergarten.

Choosing the right school is one of the most critical decisions in your childs development. As hard as it is to admit, your child will spend more time at school with teachers and classmates then at home.

After making my way through the school search I would like to share my hard-earned tips to making your search easier.

First you will need to decide Public or Private School

Some districts have highly rated public schools and others do not. Private schooling does not necessarily mean religious based school. There are of course plenty of religious based schools but there are also non-sequitarian private schools to choose from.

There are many things to consider when deciding 'public or private':

1 - Consider both Public and Private School Options

Public School Option

The state education system is always under fire. That doesnt mean all public schools are bad. Do some simple research and see what you think about the school(s) in your area.

- What is the local public school like?

Tour the public school during school hours. This can be arranged with the admissions office. Look at the children who attend. Are these the friends you would like for your child? Peek in the class room(s), if allowed. Does it seem organized? Meet the teacher who would be teaching your child. Ask about schedule for school and class room size.

You can find out the statistics for your local public school at www.publicschoolreveiw.com. This site will give you information on the schools performance for statewide testing, student to teacher ratio compared to state average, ethnicity of students attending, etc. It will give you great information on the school.

Private School Option

Your can find out what private schools are in your area by visiting www.privateschoolreveiw.com. This site will give you detailed information on number of students who attend, class size, student to teach ratio, etc.

When choosing a private school a couple things to consider are: - Does the schools religious or ethics and moral instruction fall in line with how you want your child to be raised.

- Is it within reasonable commuting distance from your home

- Can you afford it?

Although this is definitely not the most important point, it must be evaluated. Private schooling is not cheap. Prices normally range from $3500-$8000 per child per year. Most schools offer payment options generally structured to include an enrollment fee and then 6-12 month payment plans. Some private schools offer scholarships based on the childs academic performance and/or the parents income. If you decide to enroll your child in a private school long term affordability is important. You do not want to have your child transferred due to lack of tuition payment.

2 - Do Your Homework on the School(s)

Before deciding on a school you should do the following:

- Call the school and ask for a brochure or packet on the school - Tour the school(s) you are considering - Meet the teacher(s) that will be teaching your child - If possible, view a class while in session - Ask questions, any and all questions you may have - Find out about class size - Know about the school schedule. Does it work with your life schedule?

Once you have narrowed the search down to one or two schools have your spouse (if applicable) and child tour the school(s). Often you can schedule a tour with the school or attend an open house or parent meeting night.

Talk to your child and spouse about the school:

1 - Do you like the school? Do you feel comfortable there?

2 - Does your child like the school and feel comfortable there?

3 - Was the curriculum up to your standards?

4 - What was the education level of the students in the class?

5 - Was it clean?

3 - ENROLL

Once you have made your decision enroll your child. This is particularly important with private school. Space is limited and will fill up. Kindergarten classes are notorious for this. You can enroll your child as early as a year ahead of time to ensure they get in to the school of our choice.

4 - Waiting Lists for Private Schools Waiting lists exist at private schools that are full, meaning the class you are trying to enroll your child in has reach maximum enrollment. You can put your childs name on a waiting list. They will call you if a space becomes available. Make sure to ask what number you are on the waiting list. You may have a chance is you are #1-5, but even then it is only a chance. Do not rely on this waiting list. Find an alternative school and if they call in the meantime, GREAT!

5 - Talk with Your Child

Once school has started talk to your child. Ask him how school is going? Do you like the teachers? Have you made friends? Your childs responses will give you an indication of how the school is working out. Also, watch your childs behavior. Sometimes a childs behavior changes mildly after being introduced into a new group of children and environment. This is nothing that a good home life and parenting cant handle quickly though. The only cause for concern is drastic negative behavior changes. If this is the case you may want to talk to your child more seriously about what has been going on at school and have a consultation with the teacher. Normally children are good with change and adapt easily.

I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, or psychologist. I am a child care giver, a child counselor, a mentor, child advisor and an expert on my child, which is simply means I am a MOM! I hope this information will help you find the right school for your child. I didnt know where to start and since I write articles for work I thought it would be great to share what I have learned through this process in the hopes of helping the fellow parents in their quest for the right school for their child.

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March 10, 2008

Taking the Stress Out of Back-to-School

By Tony Robinson

First of all, it is important to determine whether your child is suffering from school-related stress. Is he or she complaining of stomach aches or headaches? Does he or she have a negative outlook about the start of school? Is he or she grumbling about heading back to class? Is your child a loner? Is he or she reluctant to purchase school supplies? If you answered 'yes' to any of the preceding questions, your child could be exhibiting signs of stress related to returning to school.

However, it is entirely possible that these signs are symptoms of something else. Thats why it is so important for your son or daughter to have a check-up with a pediatrician before heading back to school. The physical examination could reveal information about your childs health that is critical for his or her overall well-being.

If, however, the check-up indicates that your child may be reacting to stress, youll need to engage in some stress management techniques. The most important of these is to have a heart-to-heart talk with your child. See if your child can articulate his or her fears. If communication is a problem, you might consider having your child draw a picture of his or her school.

Sometimes, you can tell a great deal from a childs drawing. In your discussions, try to answer your childs concerns as openly and honestly as you can. For instance, if your child has worries about a particular teacher, consider making an appointment with the teacher so that you can hash out concerns. If your child is entering school for the first time, make sure that he or she receives a tour of the school. A little bit of information can go a long way in addressing your childs concerns.

Reassure your child that you will love him or her no matter what his or her grades are, but also apprise your child of your expectations. Make sure that you let your child know that you expect him or her to perform his or her personal best each day. This can help prime your child for success, while letting him or her know that you will always provide support.

Another helpful strategy is to take your child on a back-to-school shopping spree. Make sure that he or she is intimately involved in picking out folders and pencil cases. Such a shopping spree can help to equate school with fun. You might also consider taking your child on a trip to find a new wardrobe. Dressed for success, your child may be better able to cope with the demands of school.

If your childs stress level is severe, you might consider taking him or her to a child psychologist. This is an individual who is trained to listen to a child and to counsel him or her. Going for counseling isnt a sign of weakness–it is a sign of strength. You may find that your child is happier in the long run after going for some counseling sessions. You might also consider family counseling if it seems as if your entire clan is under stress. For referrals for a counselor, you might want to consult with your family physician or local mental health agency.

We sometimes fail to realize how stressful school can be to a child. Theres the issue of social relationships, scholastic performance, and extra-curricular activities. A child must please the teacher, the principal, the parent, and friends. It can be a great deal to handle, especially if the child is quite young. By setting realistic expectations, offering a shoulder to cry on, and a willingness to offer some problem-solving techniques, you can help to guarantee your childs success in school–and eliminate some of the stress that he or she will experience.

If the child is starting a new school, you may have to go the extra mile in convincing him or her that you will provide unconditional love. As long as you keep the door to communication open, you and your child should have a healthy and productive school year.

Tony Robinson is a husband, parent, webmaster and international author. Leading a full and busy lifestyle he is fully aware of the needs of a stress free life. For tips, techniques and further information visit http://www.stress-gone.com

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January 1, 2008

Home-Schooling Your Autistic Child

By Rachel Evans

While public schools are funded to handle children with special needs, these locations are not always the best arenas for autistic children. One of the reasons that home-schooling your autistic child is a good idea is because special education programs may lump autistic children in with others who have maladaptive behavioral problems.

Remember, autistic children have behavioral problems due to their developmental inability to properly function normally in social situations. If they are placed in with others who have emotional problems they may regress instead of progress. However, if home-schooled, parents can control the social influences that are likely to either help or hinder the progress of their child. They can keep them away from insensitive teachers, bullies, and have greater control of their education.

Due to their obvious differences, many autistic children are treated with cruelty. This horrible fact of life can undo much of the progress that your child may have already made. Most autistic children function best when routines are set. Home-schooling is the best way to ensure these routines are established and followed.

In addition, home-schooling is a good choice because many autistic children are sensitive to sound. If they are in a classroom with a bunch of other children making noise, it can be difficult for them to focus. The home-schooling setting is normally more quiet and conducive to learning, besides, it offers autistic children a typically 1:1 teacher to student ratio. Plus, if youre following a GFCF diet its much easier to implement this at home and you can be sure that your child is only eating what youre giving them. Furthermore, research has demonstrated that autistic children who are home-schooled score better on problem behavior assessments.

In order to make the most out of your childs home-school experience, it may be a good idea to keep a journal. Write down anything about your childs behavior and performance that is important. For instance, you can keep track of when your child is most productive, when he or she learns best, and what are the potential distractions. Remember youll need to adapt your teaching style to suit their learning ability. Trying to make them learn your way will just lead to a lack of progress and frustration all round.

As a parent and a teacher it is important for you to read up on recent literature involving the education of autistic children. There are many resources that provide information on teaching strategies, learning methods, and the different types of intelligence. Knowing this information will enable you to tailor a home-school program that will meet your childs needs. The beauty about home-schooling is that if one approach doesnt work you can adapt your style until you find an approach that does work.

Home-schooling is fast becoming a common educational choice for parents of autistic children. The research involved clearly outlines the benefits of home-schooling. However, you must ensure that you will have the time and the dedication to follow through with home-schooling. Simply keeping your child at home is not going to do any good if learning is not occurring. It is important that you address academic, behavioral, and social needs.

Rachel Evans has an interest in Autism.

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March 21, 2008

Is Private School Right for my Child?

By Keith Allen

Drugs, alcohol, sex, and other teen pressures will happen no matter where they go and what they do. Instead of making a private school a punishment or a way to try and shield them from this, deal with these problems and then determine if this type of educational environment is right for your child.

When Is It Right?

To know when your child may be better off in a private school, ask yourself these questions.

Do you feel that the school that they are currently in is not capable of providing the academics that you feel are necessary for your child?
Have you tried to work with your teen on how to handle peer pressure, but feel that there is too much danger where they are nonetheless?
Will your child react that this private school is a punishment or will you try to explain to them that this will help them to become a better student?
Does the private school provide for the academics you need your child to have, the type of discipline that you believe in and the means to enforce it?
Will you still commit to helping your child through the problems they face, one on one even if they are not at a school locally?
What do you really want to accomplish from the private setting? Is this realistic? Take some time to determine what a private school really can offer your child. In most cases, they will still be faced with all the temptations that other teens are. Making the right choice can happen if you to talk to your child, their teachers and your spouse.

Resources:
Private School Directory
Help for Parents Witn Troubled Teens

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March 23, 2008

What to do When Your Child is Being Bullied at School

By Mila Sidman & Alice Seba

However, there are some cases when bullying is out of control. Here are a few ways to spot the warnings signs that your child is being bullied at school:

Your child starts having nightmares or seems more anxious than usual

Your child seems anxious about going to school or tries to avoid going

Your child seems distracted and starts to get bad grades

Of course these signs dont necessarily point to bullying just as in some cases children wont display any signs of bullying at all. Its important to be aware and talk to your child about their school day and stop any potential bullying in its tracks.

Bullying can be destructive to both your child and the child doing the bullying. If your child is being bullied at school you should firstly try to speak to their teacher about it. The problem may be able to be resolved by the teacher. If it continues make an appointment to see the school principal and explain the situation.

More than likely your school principal will take a stand against the bullying and try to understand what is happening. Its important to give the school time in which to resolve the problem as they do need to be fair and look at the situation as a whole before passing judgement.

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January 15, 2008

7 Safety Tips For School Kids

By Janet Booth

1. Waiting for the school bus in the mornings, while traffic is at it busiest, requires a degree of commonsense. Try to have a safe place for children to wait at away from the street and heavy traffic.

2. Dont let children move close to the school bus until it has come to a complete stop and the driver has signalled that it is safe to board.

3. At the end of the school day when children leave the bus, instruct your child to move away from the vehicle at least a dozen large strides to a point where the driver can clearly see them. This helps the driver and keeps the child safe as well.

4. Instruct your child to keep a close eye on all traffic near to the school bus. The law has some special protection measures for school buses, but car drivers are only human, and they can and often do make mistakes.

5. If your child walks to school, make sure he or she wears reflective material. Aim to make them as visible to as possible to all drivers. This will help to avoid accidents.

6. If a child rides a bike to school, instruct them to walk the bike through intersections, observe all traffic light signals, and be wearing reflective material. They should also be with a friend if possible as one can help to look out for the other.

7. If you take your own child to school in your car, always have older children in a seat with a safety belt on, younger children in a booster seat with a safety belt on, and very small children in special safety seats, all seated in the back with only you, the driver, in the front.

Janet Booth lives with her family in Ohio. She is a freelance journalist for a local newspaper, and often has articles published in magazines. When shes not writing she tends to her school supplies website.

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September 6, 2008

Home School that Provides Your Children With a Good Moral Background

By Muna wa Wanjiru

When you are looking for a home school to enroll your child, you will find that there are many different educational programs that you can apply to. Since there are quite a lot of these programs it is best to see what type of subjects can be found in these programs. These subjects can be combined with religious views.

The many different home schools have subjects that are appropriate for school children of varying ages. The courses range from preschool all the way up to university. With these programs, there are curriculums that are acceptable for the various states. These curriculums will have a wide variety of subjects for parents and children to look over.

As you look for an acceptable home school for your child, you should remember that your childs education needs to match with their growth pattern. In other words you will need to look for a home school where you will find interesting subjects.

These subjects should change each semester. You should have the ability to find courses that can be adapted as time passes. All of the courses that you choose will need to be for a particular school period.

One of the better types of home schooling programs your child can be enrolled in is an accredited home study program. These accredited programs will keep track of the progress that your child is making. Since these home school courses match courses in regular schools, your child will be able to keep up with their peers.

By choosing a home school option you can give your child a varied subject matter to study. The various subjects like literature and world history are open to them. These can be covered as elective subjects. The normal subjects are one we are familiar with. So as you look through all of the subjects choose ones that are liked by your child. The main point to getting good grades is for your child to enjoy studying.

While the idea of a home school may not sound good to some parents, there are some excellent programs. These educational programs are acceptable by universities as well. Your child will enjoy getting a more personal teaching style too. And you will be able to spend more time with your child because of the home school program.

Muna wa Wanjiru is a web administrator and has been researching and reporting on internet marketing for years. For more information on home school, visit his site at home school

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April 21, 2008

How To Prepare Your Child For The First Day Of School

By SavePress Magazines

If you or your child are feeling anxious about the coming school year, what steps can you take to ease the transition and develop a healthy sense of expectation and challenge instead of fear or loss?

GIVE YOUR CHILD PRACTICE

If you have been the sole caregiver for your child it is quite possible that your child will have more anxiety about spending the day with people he or she doesnt know than a child who has been in a public day care environment before.

During the summer, before the big day, you may wish to enroll your child in preschool even if it is only one or two days per week and only two hours at a time. This gives both you and your child the chance to experience the separation without the overwhelming challenge of full time school.

If your child is not ready for a typical preschool environment, try group play activities such as a music class or book reading that involves following the teachers instructions and spending time with a group of children while parents stay close by.

SPEAK POSITIVELY ABOUT SCHOOL

As hard as it may be, try to remain positive about the school experience. Even the boldest child may be put off going to school if they sense their parents apprehensions about it.

Talk to mothers of school aged children. You may find your concerns to be commonplace, but youll quickly adapt to the routine and may even find time to enjoy it.

Find out if you can visit the school before the new school year starts. Some schools have days when children planning to attend the following year can come to a library reading one day a week as a means of getting accustomed to the school environment.

Taking your child school shopping can also create enthusiasm. New school clothes, shoes and even a big kid book bag are all ways you can foster excitement about going to school.

GET INVOLVED

It may be possible for the school to put you in touch with other parents who have children starting school at the same time as yours. Meeting other children before the school year can ease nerves and create a supportive bond.

If your school doesnt permit that information to be shared you may request that an invitation be given to parents who would like to meet, or post a notice on the bulletin board.

Once school has started stay involved with your childs progression. Discuss the activities of the day, read books brought home from school and volunteer to help in the classroom or on trips if you have the ability. All of these steps show your child that you are participating even though you are not there with them. Soon enough youll find your little one getting the hang of it, maybe even before you do!

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July 21, 2008

How Will You Prepare Your Child For The First Day At School?

By Sagit Hadad

Take a deep breath…YES your little baby is going to school. And therefore, this is just the time for the final preparations for the big day.

Why now? Because a child who is about to go to school for the first time in his life must partake in special preparations which are more time consuming than an ordinary pupils preparations.

I know how exited you are about the first day at school. Just think about it; you have already been there. You know what its like to be a new pupil, but still you are very exited. Imagine how your child feels, he doesnt know what to expect. When you dont know what to expect it is even more nerve racking.

The best way to reduce the anxiety level is to introduce the child to the things that he will have to deal with when he starts school, and this requires time, so dont postpone it until the last minute. Start now!

Take your child to buy school supplies.

Teach your child how to organize his pencil case efficiently - pencils, eraser and sharpener in one compartment, colored pencils in the second compartment and glue and scissors in the third. Efficient organization of his pencil case will make finding the equipment much easier.

Teach your child to organize his backpack efficiently - one compartment for exercise books, one compartment for text books and one compartment for food.

Buy your child some preparation for first grade books and spend time working with him in the books each day. The practice will prepare him to deal with studying in school and will also develop their fine motor skills.

At the first possible opportunity, before the opening of the school year, take your child for a tour of the school. Make sure to show him his classroom, the secretaries office and no less important…(and yes I know this sounds a bit strange) the bathroom.

Many schools hold a 'getting acquainted meeting' with the first graders before the opening of the school year. Do not miss this meeting! If the school does not plan on holding a meeting, demand a meeting with the homeroom teacher during the vacation. The homeroom teacher is the most significant figure at school for your child, and it is therefore imperative that your child meets her before the opening of the school year. On the first day of school she will be a familiar face in a new and unfamiliar place.

On the first day of school accompany your child to school and stay with him for a while. Promise him that you will collect him at the end of the day and then go off on your way. He may cry when you part, in which case, support him, encourage him, but dont stay too long at school. Trust that the educational staff will know how to calm him down.

At the end of the school day, collect your child from school and take him for a few hours of fun; eat lunch together, talk about the first day at school, buy him an ice-cream, and dont forget to tell him that you love him and how proud you are of him.
May you have a pleasant beginning and a successful school year!

Sagit Hadad is a teacher of elementary school and an instructor in informal education. Visit http://www.activities-for-kids.net/index.html where you can find a collection of the most successful activities that she initiated over the years with children.

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May 30, 2007

Home School that Provides Your Children With a Good Moral Background

By Muna wa Wanjiru

There are lots of parents who choose to have their children educated at home and for these families enrolling their children in a home school is a good move. Since many families are now trying to provide their children with a steady and good moral background these home schools are growing in numbers.

When you are looking for a home school to enroll your child, you will find that there are many different educational programs that you can apply to. Since there are quite a lot of these programs it is best to see what type of subjects can be found in these programs. These subjects can be combined with religious views.

The many different home schools have subjects that are appropriate for school children of varying ages. The courses range from preschool all the way up to university. With these programs, there are curriculums that are acceptable for the various states. These curriculums will have a wide variety of subjects for parents and children to look over.

As you look for an acceptable home school for your child, you should remember that your child's education needs to match with their growth pattern. In other words you will need to look for a home school where you will find interesting subjects.

These subjects should change each semester. You should have the ability to find courses that can be adapted as time passes. All of the courses that you choose will need to be for a particular school period.

One of the better types of home schooling programs your child can be enrolled in is an accredited home study program. These accredited programs will keep track of the progress that your child is making. Since these home school courses match courses in regular schools, your child will be able to keep up with their peers.

By choosing a home school option you can give your child a varied subject matter to study. The various subjects like literature and world history are open to them. These can be covered as elective subjects. The normal subjects are one we are familiar with. So as you look through all of the subjects choose ones that are liked by your child. The main point to getting good grades is for your child to enjoy studying.

While the idea of a home school may not sound good to some parents, there are some excellent programs. These educational programs are acceptable by universities as well. Your child will enjoy getting a more personal teaching style too. And you will be able to spend more time with your child because of the home school program.

Muna wa Wanjiru is a web administrator and has been researching and reporting on internet marketing for years. For more information on home school, visit his site at home school

 

 

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June 20, 2008

Choosing a Preschool

By Paul

The first years of a childs life are a crucial development period, and children who are nurtured and stimulated during these years are much more prepared for formal reading and math and are more likely to have the social skills they will need when its time for kindergarten. Parents are a childs first teachers, but early childhood education programs are also important, especially with the growing number of families with one parent, and families where both parents work full-time.

The National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) has approved new Early Childhood Program Standards that outline what NAEYC believes every child care, preschool and other early childhood education programs should provide to nurture the learning and development of young children. These standards can be used as a guideline by parents to determine the quality of a preschool or child care program.

As the leading organization of early childhood educators, NAEYC established an accreditation system in 1985 to raise the quality of early childhood education and help families identify good preschool and child care programs. To earn NAEYC accreditation, programs must meet national performance standards of quality that go beyond most state health and safety licensing requirements. Teachers and staff in these programs receive ongoing training, and the programs are observed by independent, professional experts, and reviewed by a national accreditation panel.

To find a NAEYC-accredited child care or preschool program in your area, click on 'Accredited Program Search' on the NAEYC Website at www.naeyc.org. Local child care resource and referral agencies are also good sources. To find one in your area, check www.childcareaware.org.

The following guidelines, based on the NAEYC Early Childhood Program Standards, can help you identify high-quality early care and education programs for your young children.

Preschool and child care programs should focus on children:

*Watch to see that children interact with other children and adults, so they can build healthy relationships.

*Ask about the curriculum, which should include a variety of activities appropriate for the childrens ages and needs. Preschool and child care programs should have qualified staff:

*The staff should have the educational background to promote your childs learning and development. Ask what degrees and training teachers have. *Ask how long teachers and staff have been with the program. Teachers that stay in the program longer are more able to focus their attention on the children and establish bonds with them.

Preschool and child care programs should build relationships with families:

*Program staff should work with families to meet their childs needs. Ask how information and concerns are communicated between staff and families.

*Check that the programs policies allow families to visit their child during the program day.

Preschool and child care programs should be well-run: *Check that the program is licensed by the state. The facilities need to be age-appropriate and well maintained, both indoors and outdoors.

*Check whether the program has policies and practices to help keep children safe from preventable illness and injury.

*Ask about the child-to-teacher ratio, which helps determine how much individual attention your child will get. For example, there should be at least one adult for every ten 4-year-olds.

Evaluating a program based on these standards will help you choose a high-quality program for your child that will allow them to get a great start on learning.

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Paul

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August 2, 2008

School Tips For Parents Of An Adhd Child

By Tobias Higgens

Evaluation on children to establish whether they suffer from the attention deficit hyperactivity disorder can be made both by school psychologist and outside specialists. School, the controlled environment where a child spends a great deal of time doing all sorts of activities, social, interactive, creative, physical and mental, is the best place to discover whether a child shows the symptoms of ADHD or other disabilities, so this evaluation became an obligation for the institution.

The first person to contact in case of suspicion of ADHD condition in a child is the teacher. The teacher will know what is the best way to deal with this matter and will offer the best guidance for requesting the school system for a proper evaluation. A mention is that this request should be written, contain personal data on the child and parents that asks for the evaluation.

Even though in the past, many school systems were avoiding this kind of implication in children evaluation, nowadays, the law imposed obligations on the assessment. If a parents request for his childs evaluation is repeatedly denied by the school system, he can always turn to local parent groups or Parent Training and Information (PTI) center and Protection and Advocacy (P&A) agency for help. More information on this centers and on the law for this matter will be presented later in the document on the support groups and organizations section

By following the very important rule of being the person who represents your child and your childs interests, you need to provide all the help and assistance he needs to overcome all the problems he finds difficult to deal with such as changing teachers, changing school tasks when a new school year starts, organizing new habits and events in his life, you need to make a reliable assessment on your childs strong and weak points and develop, in collaboration with the school, an individualized education program (IEP).

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May 21, 2008

Senior High Home Schooling: Help - My Child is Smarter than Me!

By Beth Gabriel

Yikes! My child is a genius and smarter than me! Its a scary thought, isnt it? But remember to stop and congratulate yourself and your child - be proud of the great job that youve done so far. A great resource for your genious is to tap into the online home schooling resources. There are curriculums that can be purchased and completed online. Some will provide textbooks as well as standard home schooling products. Another option is to take classes that can be held in a virtual classroom, students can use a web cam to participate or they can simply use lecture based courses online. The online options for your student are endless. For starters, just do a Google search for home school high school and see all the information that comes up. Also, many cities have parent co-ops to help share resources. Check with your local library to see where and when your local home schooling group meets. Sharing books and resources with other parents is an excellent, low cost option.

Should you stop home schooling and consider public or private school instead? Many parents feel that during the high school years, education at home is too difficult and find it hard to challenge their child. They consider sending their child to public high school. But, this can be a difficult and troublesome transition for your brainy teenager. The environment in a public high school can be anything but stimulating to an advanced student or even inviting to a child who has been home schooled up until now. A private school may be better, but still may not tailor their curiculum to the advanced student not to mention the expense of high tuition. There are still the problems with your child being the new kid at school. New friends, new teachers, new expectations are all anxiety producing for your child.

What other options are there? If you feel over-whelmed about home schooling your senior high school student and dont want to consider public or private high school - what else can you do? Consider your network of fellow parents who home school. What are you best at? What are their strengths? There may be a way to trade skills with other parents. A parent who has skills and interests in high school educating may be willing to teach your child along with their child in trade for you teaching one of their children who is younger. The double bonus here is added socialization for both high school students.

College Post Secondary Option Another resource for your advanced high school student is the post secondary option at your local college or junior college. This has great advantages for both you and your child. Your child wont be branded as the new kid - everyone at college is new. Many times you arent required to pay college tuition for the classes that your child takes. Your child receives high school credit and enjoys the socialization and mental stimulation that advanced classes can bring. Its a great option for both of you!

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March 17, 2008

Information About Home Schooling: Is It Suitable For Your Child?

By Kathryn Whittaker

Home schooling is efficient and helpful if you want it to be. You will be responsible for your childs education so you will surely be the one to blame if they dont learn. If your child prefers to be alone or isolated, you should not force him to go to school and mingle with the other kids. For sure, he will not feel comfortable and the learning process might be slow. If your child wants to learn at home with you, it will be to your advantage to teach him the basics.

Now that the education process is in demand, your child has a lot of options to choose from. First is to learn from the books just like the way they do it in school. Another way is by learning online through the use of e-books. E-books are the easy way to learn if your child does not feel comfortable with the teacher due to traumatic experiences or other reasons.

If going to school is geographically too far, you can educate your child at home. Traveling might be costly, stressful, and tiring. If your child has some physical disabilities, he might encounter difficulties in the public school system therefore home schooling might be the way to go. If your child has low self-esteem, and lacks confidence, he might not be able to deal with the pressures in public school, and could experience a lot of difficulties that may hinder his learning and social awareness. If your child has signs of autism or abnormalities, being home schooled would be the best way to go to ensure comfort and effective learning.

If your childs interest is learning at home, home schooling will be the ultimate option. There are kids who go to school just to play and never study. If this is the case, bringing him to school will be useless and ineffective.

There is a fine balance with home schooling to ensure that your child has a relevant education alongside socializing and playing sports with other children. Home schooling allows you to impart values and teachings that you hold dear while adhering to the basic curriculum.

As long as your child has plenty of opportunity to mix with other children their age and you feel that you are adequately equipped to teach then home schooling can provide an effective alternative to sending your child to school.

Alison Palmer has an interest in Family & Children related topics. To find out how you can become successful at home schooling your child please visit this Home schooling related site.

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January 13, 2007

FamilyEducation.com Relaunches Online Reading Ability Tool for Preschool Children

By Family Education

 

Boston, MA, DATE, 2006 - From school newsletters, to expert advice on television, many parents find themselves overwhelmed with tips on how these "norms" relate to their own child.
FamilyEducation.com is partnering with the National Center for Learning Disabilities to offer "Get Ready to Read!", a research-based screening tool for testing a four-year-old child's reading ability prior to entering kindergarten.

"Get Ready to Read!" is also available at FamilyEducation.com in Spanish as Descripci

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February 7, 2008

How To Balance Your Childs Diabetes And School

By David Silva

Here are a few suggestions to help you balance your childs diabetic needs with his or her school environment.

1. Before your child heads off to school, its vital to prepare teachers, classmates, and school officials. First, they need to know what diabetes is and the potential situations that may arise for a diabetic child. Second, the school nurse, teachers, and school officials should have a plan in place for any emergencies that may arise as a result of your childs diabetes.

2. While childhood diabetes has seen a growing number of Type II cases, the majority of children with diabetes have Type I diabetes, which can require insulin shots throughout the day. In most cases, these can be self administered. However, teachers and school officials need to be aware of how often such shots should be administered and be prepared to allow a time and place for your child to receive his or her insulin shots.

3. Teachers, in particular, need to have a heightened awareness of the subtleties of diabetes. Requests by your child for a drink of water or a snack or the need to use the restroom should be taken seriously.

4. The decision to inform your childs classmates of his or her diabetes is a personal one. If such a disclosure is made, it should be presented in as positive a light as possible. For instance, you or another family member may want to do a short presentation to the class about diabetes and potential diabetes emergencies. Make sure the presentation is kept simple to understand, covers the basics of blood sugar and insulin and the need to supplement the bodys needs with insulin shots, and allows the children to ask questions.

5. Help classmates, teachers and school officials understand that low blood sugar can cause unusual behavior in a diabetic. Your child may display unusual anger, become grouchy or headachy, fall asleep unexpectedly, or become confused about simple things. In such instances, the teacher or school nurse must recognize the signs and offer your child fruit juice, a piece of candy or soda pop to help bring his or her blood sugar level up.

6. If you havent already, you need to educate your child on how to recognize the various signs inside his or her body that something isnt quite right. These can include tiredness, becoming shaky, feeling butterflies in the stomach, sweating, or feeling as if the blood is draining from your childs head. Again, these are subtle signs that your childs blood sugar level is dropping and he or she needs a small snack to bring it back under control.

School plays an important role in every childs life. Its no different for a diabetic child. You can help make your diabetic childs school experience as safe and normal as possible by preparing teachers, classmates and school officials to deal with the complications of this disease. Your diabetic child has the same dreams and interests as other children. Theres no reason diabetes should prevent him or her from living a relatively normal school life.

David Silva is the webmaster for Diabetes Base, a website dedicated to disseminating information on diabetes, its symptoms, its treatments, and its complications.

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July 5, 2008

Autistic Residential Schools Vs Day Schools

By Rachel Evans

Residential school programs are often no different than day school programs, but here the student has the opportunity to interact with others outside of a classroom setting. This is sometimes exactly what an autistic child needs to learn socialization skills with people outside of the family. These schools are also very safe and organized in a way that is conducive to learning. For example, Franklin Academy in Connecticut, which specializes in teaching non-verbal students, has a three to one student to teacher ratio and an average class size of six students. They also plan small-group field trips to public places, so your child has an opportunity to interact in public places. This is as opposed to day schools, which typically have larger class sizes and therefore cannot handle public outings. Even if the day school specializes in teaching autistic children, they simply may not have the resources and time during the school day for field trips.

Another advantage over day schools, whether public of private, is the living aspect. Although the students who attend these schools are greatly supervised, they learn living skills that they will need in an adult world. Whereas you may feel obligated or want to do things for your child at home, at a residential school, your child will be encouraged to live more independently. At Brehm Preparatory School in Illinois, students learn time and money management and are in charge of simple home maintenance (chores), study time, and recreational activities. Here also, the emphasis is on family.

Family is an important thing to consider with any type of residential school. While your child is learning valuable social skills, he or she may become more distant from his or her immediate family. At schools like Brehm, including Hampshire Country School in New Hampshire, have parents weekend often to so parents can visit their children. Consider also the stress this may relieve for you and your family. Since you will need to spend less time helping your autistic child with learning everyday life skills, you can devote more time to enjoying their company when you see them. Spend time on your marriage and with your other children, activities that would normally be hard to achieve or ignored with an autistic child at home.

However, it is important to note that residential schooling is not for everyone. Typically, your child needs to be high functioning to handle this school atmosphere. You will need to consider cost, since tuition , room, and board for residential schools can be quite expensive. Remember, residential school is not for everyone, but you should definitely consider the option. Research this type of program so that you can make the best decisions possible for your childs education.

Rachel Evans has an interest in Autism.

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