September 2, 2008
Are You Giving Enough Attention to Your Child ?
By Chris Lakatos
As parents, there are many things we could do for your kids :
Create a feeling of family by attending functions and activities in the school when possible. It is difficult for a parent, who is working full time; to attend and be at all functions at the school. But attending at least one function every few months will make the child realize you are paying attention and that you do make an effort to be there as they are involved in a play, talent show, art show, musical and so on.
Do make an effort to be aware of what your children are watching. Are your children watching horror movies all the time or are they watching Disney movies ? If you are not sure what your children are watching, you could be missing out on why thy want to eat green eggs, why they want to dress in all red, why they think they can fly, or what they want to do with the gun. Make yourself aware of what your children are watching, and if they are watching age appropriate television.
Children will often times talk back as they are testing the waters, testing you to see how far you will allow their expressive behavior to continue. A child will talk back to get attention. To curb the child who is constantly talking back, send them to the corner for five minutes. Putting the child in the corner with his or her face in the corner for three to five minutes will curb their talking back to you. When time is up, remind the child, they were put into the corner because they were talking back, and that the next time they are talking back to you, they will spend even longer in the corner.
Help your child deal with stress. Stress is found during all stages of life. Teaching and helping your child to deal with stress is important. Ask your child what is wrong, and then confront the problem head on. Sometimes the smallest things can cause added stress and it will directly or indirectly affect their grades in school. Find the source of stress, such as if there is a bully at school or some classmates are calling them names, or perhaps they just dont like to walk to school alone - find the root of the problem. For instance, 'investigate' why your child is losing sleep and help them solve that problem.
Teach children to wear their seatbelts no matter how short the trip or whom they are driving with. Seat belts are proven to save lives, and it only makes good sense to wear a seat belt. While teaching a child to wear their seat belt, they will also need to understand what could happen if they are not wearing a seat belt. Allow the child to understand that people can get hurt or even die. A child that understands the importance of a seat belt will wear the seat belt even in a car with other teens, or while riding with anyone.
With this, I hope every parents will not neglect their child in whatever circumstances they are in. Your children childhood deserves to be healthy and happy and we as parents could help by sharing a bit of our time ,attention and of course, lots of love to them.
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