February 18, 2008

Simple Ways To Teach Your Child About Shapes

By Nicole Dean

Babies listen intently to a mothers voice. They take everything in, like sponges - all of the sights, sounds and especially, the shapes. It is important, then, to communicate what objects are to your child on a daily basis.

· Point to toys in your childs room. Tell your child what the toy is and have them say it.

· Point to an object in your home and repeat what it is, then ask your child to say the word.

· When giving your child a bath, you may have a toy boat or rubber ducky for your child to play with. Say the word.

· On a warm summers day, take your child outside and point to trees and flowers and repeatedly say what they are.

· Babies love pets; point to your dog or cat; say the word and have your child repeat the word and the name of the pet as well.

When you take your child to the park, and notice kids on the swing - or perhaps someone has balloons - point to these objects and tell your child what they are. Place your child in the sandbox with a pail and shovel. Identify the sand, pail and shovel. If your child points to an object, as they most often do, tell your child what it is. By simply walking around your home and pointing to objects on a daily basis, your child will not only learn what the object is, but will be able to distinguish it from other objects as well. A simple activity like blowing bubbles can turn into a lesson on circles.

The more you communicate with your child, the better prepared he or she will be when beginning pre-K.

Nicole Dean co-created http://www.kidsactivitycalendar.com to help her child and others prepare for Kindergarten in a fun way. To get your free sample lesson, stop by http://www.kidsactivitycalendar.com/letter-a-sample.htm today.

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July 3, 2008

5 Ways Parents Can Protect Their Children

By Gabriel Adams

Child Identification Kits

Identification kits can help save the life of your child, which is both a simple and inexpensive way to have an extra helping hand in the real world. An example of child ID includes the Safe-Card kit, which is comprised of a plastic card containing a color photo and fingerprint. Parents receive one that is the size of any other wallet-size ID. The child is equipped with a brightly colored patented tag that fastens to their shoes. Their information is hidden and sealed until the proper authorities break it. It is the hope that the ID kits can help your child if they should become lost or hurt.

Go Over Safety Rules

You can never go over safety rules enough to match the worry you feel for your child when they are out of your sight. Whether its telling them not to talk to strangers, teaching them how to properly cross the street, or alerting them to fire safety, it is important to take every opportunity to restate safety rules, as well as introduce newer rules and regulations as they become older. For example, in this day and age, teaching children about drugs and sex in middle school is suggested, instead of waiting until their high school years.

Monitor Their Internet Activity

While the Internet is a great learning tool, it can also become your childs worse enemy. The amount of socialization websites is increasing on a daily basis and has become an alluring entertainment outlet for children of all ages. Its not just the teenagers being exposed to inappropriate language, graphics and human contact, young kids also happen upon dangerous interaction with others across the Net.

Get Them Allergy Tested

Young children are susceptible to develop and harbor allergies that go beyond the common intolerance to peanut butter, nuts, strawberries, and milk. Having your child undergo an allergy test may protect them from potential health threats.

Know Who They Interact With

When you are aware of who your child comes in contact with on a daily basis, it is easier to locate them when needed and to feel secure with their interactions outside of the household. For instance, when they ask to spend the night at a friends house, it is important to meet with the parents and get a sense of the home environment your child will be entering. If you have any bad feelings, you must act on them despite what your children may protest.

Child identification kits are important for your childrens safety. Find child identification kits at http://www.safecardid.com/childidkits.html

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November 11, 2006

How To Get Your Kids To Do Chores And Improve Behavior ?

By Heather

Our plan is fairly easy to use the kids end up doing all the work. Trust me they'll remind you! To start here is an over view of what this program entiles. My kids earn tokens for chores and behavior. The save up their tokens to purchase rewards. The real kicker is that they can also lose tokens for misbehaving. To get started you'll have to do a little brainstorming, I will give you a few examples to help.

The first step is to decide what the kids can do to earn these tokens and how many tokens they can earn per chore. A few examples of what we have are:

making their bed = 2 tokens
keeping toys picked up = 1 token
putting away laundry = 1 token
working out conflicts = 2 tokens

Determine what chores you think your child will be able to do and allow them to earn tokens for them. My kids receive extra tokens for doing chores without having to be told. (I highly recommend this!) Doing things around the house for tokens helps to make them feel more independent. Think of it as preparing them for their future in a job. They do something - they get paid for it.

We also have a behavior chart where they get different color stars based on their behavior for that day. This is completely optional. It helps! We base their behavior on how they are at home, at school, and anytime we go out. At the end of the week, depending on the stars they have, they receive tokens for good behavior.

We also made a list of ways they can lose tokens. Some examples would be: lying = lose of 3 tokens, fighting = lose of 2 tokens, not following directions = lose of 2 tokens. This list is completely up to you. You determine what behaviors are unacceptable and how many tokens they loose if they show this behavior.

Now the kids favorite part - the rewards. It can be a little difficult sometimes to decide on what to offer and how much to offer it for.(Ask the kids for their input on things they enjoy doing, but don't get to do often.) Here is how we decided: first we made a list of things the kids could do that wouldn't cost us any money, then we made a list of things that would cost very little money (like just gas to go across town, or movie rentals), the next list cost a little more but no more than we were willing to spend on our kids in any given week. Our rewards are divided into catagories of daily and weekly.

Example of daily rewards would be:
30 min. of tv time = 2 tokens
watch a dvd = 3 tokens
These are just a couple of rewards they can purchas on a daily basis. The rest of our rewards are purchased once a week on Friday. Here are a few examples of these rewards:

Example of weekly rewards:
play in sprinkler =15 tokens
go to park =45 tokens
go to theatre =90 tokens
have a friend sleepover = 45 tokens
buy a new toy($20 or less) = 90 tokens

Sit down, make a few list, talk to your kids and have fun with it. (Tokens can be purchased cheap at dollar stores or I found some at Wal-mart.) If you need further help you can go to my web site at http://cutefrog5@blogspot.com Thank you and good luck!

I am a stay at home mom, recently on my second marriage. My husband and I both had kids from a previous marriage. At first we had a few problems getting the kids to work together. We brainstormed up this wonderful idea that has worked wonderfully so far and I'd like to share it with you.

 

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April 6, 2007

Stutter in Childhood

By Stephen Hill

A stutter normally starts for people in childhood and is often referred to as a childhood stutter. This is often very worrying for parents and the child and it is difficult to know where to seek help for the person who has the stutter.

There are many types of stutter. Family and friends may not even be aware that a person they know has a stutter. That is because the person is able to hide the stutter, by using word avoidance or word substitution.

Other people are unable to do this and have what they would consider an openely more severe stutter.

A stutter would normally occur more when a person is:

under pressure when tired meeting new people speaking in an uncomfortable situation asking questions, for example asking for directions introducing people

Stuttering can also be known in some areas as stammering.

Stutter therapy:

People who have a stutter have different options when seeking therapy. They can go to a speech therapist or speech pathologist. Alternatively they can attend a speech course. These courses can be on a group basis or on a one to one basis.

I personally prefer and advise one to one stutter courses as I believe every person who has a stutter is an individual and has their own individual type stutter.

 

Stephen Hill is somebody who has overcome a stutter and who now helps other people to achieve fluency. He has a website at

http://www.stammering-stuttering.co.uk and at:

http://www.stutter-stuttering.com

 

 

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March 21, 2007

Childhood Stutter

By Steve Hill

A stutter normally starts for people in childhood and is often referred to as a childhood stutter. This is often very worrying for parents and the child and it is difficult to know where to seek help for the person who has the stutter.

There are many types of stutter. Family and friends may not even be aware that a person they know has a stutter. That is because the person is able to hide the stutter, by using word avoidance or word substitution.

Other people are unable to do this and have what they would consider an openely more severe stutter.

A stutter would normally occur more when a person is:

under pressure
when tired
meeting new people
speaking in an uncomfortable situation
asking questions, for example asking for directions
introducing people

Stuttering can also be known in some areas as stammering.

Stutter therapy:

People who have a stutter have different options when seeking therapy. They can go to a speech therapist or speech pathologist. Alternatively they can attend a speech course. These courses can be on a group basis or on a one to one basis.

I personally prefer and advise one to one stutter courses as I believe every person who has a stutter is an individual and has their own individual type stutter.

 

Stephen Hill runs a speech centre in Birmingham, England. He has a couple of websites at:

stuttering
information

best way to quit smoking

stuttering
therapy

 

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June 7, 2008

Is Your Child Safe On The Internet!

By E Schiphouwer

Even without willingly searching for the bad things on the net they often are thrown into those dark places anyway. This is because anybody can get ranked for certain keywords. Your child then for example is searching for toys or something like that, it might be very possible for him/her to wind up on a sexual oriented site that offers toys not meant for their eyes.

This as you can imagine is a parents worst nightmare. Their child is confronted with all kinds of very bad things a child should not see and this on a daily basis. That is, unless you do something about.

One other major development lately is that people are trying to lure children to chat/message boards, to trick them into whatever evil stuff is on their mind. As you can imagine this is incredibly dangerous to any child, and this should be stopped!

One way to deal with it is to continually stand besides your children when they are online and monitor their every step with your own eyes. Of course this would be impossible for anybody to maintain and is no option.

Another way to deal with is, is to forbid your children to use the Internet completely. Again of course this isnt an option either because the Internet is a place where they can discover many great things and skills they would have never encountered when they would not have had access to the Net.

The solution is installing software that monitors what your child is doing. With software like that installed your child will not be able to look at x-rated sites, dangerous chat boards and the rest of the dark and evil content there might be creeping on their screen.

Child protection software does not have to cost you a lot of money at all, especially if you see how much it protects your children. Child safety/protection software can range from about $20 to around $80. This small investment will protect your kids online and will shield them from all that content you dont want them to see!

I hope you will take action to protect those young ones, as they cant do this for on their own! Protect your kids today!

His Family Resources:KiddieWeb! Child Safety:Child Safety Software. He also loves Family Guy!

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October 18, 2008

Are You Ready To Homeschool Your Child Yet?

By Lisa Scott

This essentially allows them to adapt and make friends easier. I remember back when I was in elementary school, and was jealous of the children who were homeschooled. How cool it would be to not have to go to school everyday. Your childs education is a big decision to consider. Discover a spectrum of homeschooling information today. Homeschooling information is just a mouse click away.

Public education can be a life experience. You truly get a sense of how to interact with your peers. I attended public school from kindergarten through senior year, and think it worked rather well. Sure, you have some good and some bad experiences, but overall it was fun. Regardless, more and more these days parents are in need of homeschooling information. Maybe they are a stay-at-home parent, or simply wish to provide their own style of education for their child.

This can be beneficial if you consider the personal attention the child will receive. The key is tenacity. You have to stick to a daily regime in order to properly school your child. Homeschooling information found online can help you better understand this process before you start. Are you qualified to teach? Are you truly going to challenge your child to the same level a public school would? These are questions to ponder.

Our education is certainly a crucial part of our development. As we grow into adulthood we need our minds to be prepared for the job we tackle or the University we venture off to. With public schooling growing on a regular basis, there is always room for more and more children to learn.

However, some parents take a different path in the education process. A second way to acquire academic knowledge is at home. If a parent chooses to, he or she can teach his/her child at home. In fact, homeschooling information is more available now days than ever before. All you need is a computer and Internet access to delve into the world of homeschooling online.

Deciding to teach your children at home is a big step, get the homeschooling information you need to make an informed decision.

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March 2, 2008

Why You Should Read To Your Child

By Deanna Mascle

There are a number of reasons why you should read to your child. If you are already reading to your child on a daily basis then these reasons should strengthen your resolve and if you are regularly reading to your child they should challenge you to do so:

1. A carefully selected story challenges and engages your childs mind. Through books your child can not only re-live experiences in their own life but also learn and experience cultures and events far removed from their current scope.

2. Reading out loud demonstrates what good reading sounds like and provides a goal for the childs literacy efforts. As your child learns to read, he or she will need role models to follow. Shouldnt you be one of them?

3. Sharing a variety of books improves your childs knowledge of language including vocabulary, sentence structure, and pronunciation. The more your child knows about words and language then the more knowledge and experience she will have to draw upon while learning to read and the easier it will be for her to learn.

4. Reading with your child helps the child connect print words and meaning. Children learn to read many words simply through repeated exposure. It is not enough to simply provide words and instead the words must also be placed in context.

5. Reading demonstrates how a book works, such as that we read a book from front cover to back cover and a page from top to bottom, and a line from left to right. Those of us with long experience with books take this knowledge for granted but young children need to learn these simple rules.

6. A well-written story stimulates your childs imagination and creativity which can foster their own creative efforts and play.

7. Reading a variety of stories helps children learn how story structure and narrative works which will help in literacy as well as social interaction. Human beings use story telling and narrative in our professional and personal interactions and the people who have the best grasp of narrative technique are often the most successful in these areas. Give your child an edge.

8. Making literacy a priority in your life will demonstrate its importance to your child so they will make it a priority in theirs. If your child never sees you read then why would they think it is important?

9. Reading to a child also promotes physical contact as your child sits on your lap or cuddles beside you. It provides another opportunity to strengthen your bond with your child.

10. Listening to the human voice can be very soothing and especially when it is the voice of a loved one. It can help lower stress levels and bring comfort. Children face many stresses during the day just as do adults. You might find taking the time to read to your child not only reduces their stress level but yours as well.

You should make reading to your child a part of your regular daily routine but also include spontaneous opportunities as well. Not only will these moments draw you closer to your child and provide lasting memories but you are also giving your child benefits that will impact their entire life.

Writer, educator and mother Deanna Mascle shares more articles and resources about Teaching Your Child To Read at http://YouCanTeachYourChildToRead.com

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March 11, 2008

Putting Reading First

By Mary Joyce

Learning to read isnt an easy task for a child. This is why it is so very important that you as the parent is a model for reading and work with and encourage your child to read each and every day.

As a parent or homeschooling parent, you should help insure that your child develops essential skills associated with reading such as:

> Use of language and vocabulary.

> Having your child respond after listening to stories - read short paragraphs and have your child tell you about what they just heard.

> Lean and recognize the alphabet and letters - use everyday items around your house to use as examples. For example, cut out big letters and have your child find items around the house that begin with that letter and stick the letter to them.

> Work with your child to connect the sound the letters make to the spoken language.

> Read… and read often to your child so they know that reading is a daily activity.

> Work daily with your child to add a new word to their vocabulary.

> Discuss with your child what was just read. This helps you monitor their level of comprehension.

These skills are vitally important for the pre-first grade level reader. Once you child gets to the first grade level the focus becomes building upon these skills that the will set the stage for the child essentially for the rest of their lives. As a parent its not enough to merely incorporate these skills into your childs daily activities, you keep your fingers on the pulse of your childs progress and understanding. At this early age, it is critical to get the reading journey off on the right foot.

At its simplest form, reading is a skill. Just like any other skill, it takes practice to become proficient at it. In fact, reading is such an important skill… it takes more practice than a child will receive if they attend a traditional school. As a parent you need to augment the schools reading program with daily reading time at home. If you are homeschooling, make reading a daily top priority type of activity.

Introduce your child to your local library as soon as you can. Get them signed up for summer reading programs. Set aside an area in your home where your child can have and develop a library all their own. Put their favorite chair in their library or where they like to read and have you read to them.

Reading truly is fundamental to education and successes. Without good reading skills, much of life will always be a struggle. Build a sound and solid foundation for your child by ensuring early on that you help establish a love for reading in your child and success will follow.

Mary Joyce is a former educator, successful homeschool parent, and has written many articles on Homeschool Curriculum for the Homeschool-Curriculum-4u website. Please visit (http://www.homeschool-curriculum-4u.com) for more of Marys articles, resources on homeschool, ideas, and curriculum information.

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February 26, 2008

Home Schooling and Reading

By Rebecca Walker

What many parents feel to realise is that home schooling or putting your child through the education system is not something which has to be such a clear cut choice. In fact, being able to decide on which is the best is not a choice that always has to be made - many parents decide to allow their children to get the best of both worlds. For example, it would be possible to have your child attend school as normal, yet for you to teach them at home as something which is extra-curricular and done as a means of enhancing their education to ensure they ultimately are taught more than they otherwise would. Despite that, many parents decide to go for one or the other. This is understandable, and also something which is ultimately up to the parents of the child to decide.

For those that have decided to home school their child, they can fit into one of three categories. Those that are educating their child before they go off to school; those that are education their child to supplement their school education; and those that are exclusively home schooling their child. Regardless of what category you fit into, the same rules can be applied in order to ensure you get the most out of the time you invest into teaching your child.

Firm, But Fair

When it comes to teaching your child, it is important that they are subjected to the same controls that are put on them in the classroom. Although it may be tempting to allow your child to benefit from the flexibility home schooling offers, it is important they are able to make markable progress on a daily basis. This means, that although you can be flexible in terms of the hours that your child works and also how quickly you move along with the curriculum and the areas you concentrate on, you do not want to leave your child disadvantaged compared to others their age by failing to take account of the progress that they would have otherwise made in a formal education.

Reading Distinctions

When you are reading with your child as part of home schooling, it is important they are able to distinguish this from what happens when you are reading with your child as a parent. This means that you can use reading as a way of ensuring that your child is able to appreciate your role as both a parent and as a teacher. When you are working on your childs reading in a formal teaching environment you can put more emphasis on improving their ability, however when reading with them for fun be far less forceful and only help them when they ask.

The author Rebecca Walker writes articles for childfont.com. He also gives valuable information about child development, home schooling & reading, child development & learning to read, active white board are accessible on the internet.
 

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August 26, 2008

What Are The Symptoms of ADD?

By Sarah Jenkins

Attention Deficit Disorder most often makes itself apparent as extreme inattentiveness. While most children go through spells of lack of concentration, with an ADD child, it actually hinders day to day activities. This is displayed by having a short attention span, being easily distracted, and not paying attention to details, all more so than an average child of the same age. You may notice a child with ADD becoming sidetracked with very little noise or activity that other people may not even notice.

Impulsiveness is another symptom of ADD. A child that interrupts constantly, has an inability to wait their turn, or blurts out answers in class may be exhibiting signs of Attention Deficit Disorder. This characteristic shows a lack of process in action - not thinking before acting. For most people, a thought comes to mind, they consider it, and then choose to act or not act on it. However, with ADD, the idea enters a childs mind and is almost instantly enacted, with little consideration to consequences. This comes across as the child not being able to control themselves.

Another possible symptom of ADD is hyperactivity. Although this is not present in all children, it is exhibited in many. A child with ADD and hyperactivity may talk excessively, fidget, have a difficult time sitting still, climb or run excessively, and often displays these behaviors at inappropriate times. Most children are active; however, interference with daily life is a sign of a problem.

The key to diagnosing Attention Deficit Disorder is excessiveness in the above characteristics. Almost all children will exhibit these traits occasionally, but they must actually create a difficulty on a regular basis to point to ADD. They must also be inappropriate for the age of the child. Most younger children will be more inattentive, impulsive, or hyperactive; however, with age, these behaviors are usually controlled. For this reason, a child must be compared to other children of the same age to accurately analyze if their actions are excessive. More in-depth information is provided on the symptoms and signs of ADD in ebook 2 of 'Attention Deficit Disorder Explained - From Child to Adult'.

Sarah is an acclaimed writer on medical matters, and has written extensively on the subjects of Attention Deficit Disorder, Bird Flu and Cohns Disease. For more of her articles, go to http://www.imedicalvillage.com now.

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May 23, 2008

Ways To Protect Our Children From Illness

By Claire Quaty

There is no one simple answer to such a thing. When you take the fact that health care in this country is skyrocketing from a monetary point of view. This means that not everyone will be able to afford to take their children to the doctor as much as they should. The matter really speaks to the ways that we can help to protect our children from becoming ill in the first place which will take the better route to child health.

The first step in maintaining a childs health is the living environment. The child needs to be in a safe and germ free environment for the best part of the day. While it is true that it is not always easy to keep a child from getting into germ type situations, there are other issues that warrant some consideration. The most active and successful way to keep a child germ free is to teach them the proper methods of hand washing and other hygiene issues. A child that is taught to wash their hands on a daily basis and so on will take that kind of knowledge with them outside the home.

This is highly important because the matter of people knowing that certain things carry bad germs that they do not even realize is high these days. This is where the early education comes into play. The child that is taught to be careful of certain things and then wash their hands when contact is unavoidable is the best method for keeping them as safe as possible over the years. Regular bathing is also highly important. A child that plays outside during the day has opened their body up to attack by the many disease carrying germs of the world. If the child is not washed then they have the better chance of catching some kind of illness that will affect them in the health area.

The second step and most important part of your childs health is the proper nutrition that they should be receiving. In most cases there are times when the child will want to eat nothing but the everyday junk food that is so appealing to them. You should take the steps to limit the intake of sugar and fats to maintain the proper nutritional balance in their diet. A child that has the proper nutrition is getting the best chance of not becoming ill down the road, nor becoming overweight.

Read more from Claire Quaty at: parents-mag.com

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June 26, 2007

Child Behavior: Are You A Good Model?

By Scott Clark

Child behavior is a subject that is vast and can be talked about for hours on end, but as a parent you play a major role in how your child's behavior is shaped and molded. Children love their parents and they begin watching their every movement from a very young age. They often begin to imitate their parents at a very young age as well. Which means it's time to do some soul searching of your own to ensure you are they type of person you want your children imitating.

Most parents don't realize that child behavior is model of what they have seen, heard and been exposed to in life until the child says their first curse word. Many parents in this situation don't know what to do and they immediately begin to discipline the child and tell them that they are not old enough to talk like that. But, this brings a parent to a situation in life where they need to begin watching their language and their behavior a little more. The bottom line is that most children do not learn these words from preschool or on the school bus - they learn them at home.

This brings us to another behavior problem that we often see with children. Whining is a huge issue for some parents, but remember child behavior is heavily influenced by parental behavior. Children come home from school and they whine because they have to do their homework, they whine that they have to clean their rooms and they whine about a variety of other things that they don't want to do. Now, think about what you do when you come home from work. Do you complain and whine about work? Do you complain and whine about cooking dinner or doing laundry or all of the other chores that you have to do around the house? If so, imagine what it might be like in your home if everyone came home from school or work, did their "home" work and then sat down for an enjoyable dinner for each other. Imagine how much whining and complaining could be eliminated from your home. Once again, you have had a direct influence on child behavior.

We all have our chores to do and we all have bad days. The minor complaint here and there is nothing huge, but you should do your best not to complain and whine in front of your children. If you must do this, then go to a room where your children will not here you and talk it out with your spouse or a friend on the phone in privacy. This will allow you to vent your adult frustrations without exposing your children to it on a daily basis.

 

Scott Clark is a contributing author for http://www.parenting-abc.com

 

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June 27, 2007

Teaching a Child Responsible Behavior Begins at Home

By Lori S. Anton

Parents are teachers, too. When it comes to child rearing, one of the most important lessons a parent can teach their youngster is responsible behavior. This means helping the child learn how to interact with others in a way that displays self-respect, as well as respect toward others.

No child comes into this world pre-programmed with good manners and virtuous attributes such as a willingness to share, consideration for the feelings of others, respect for others possessions, respect for authority figures, and a selfless attitude.

Considerate, responsible behavior must be taught while a child is very young so that it is instilled by the time they are older, when irresponsible behavior risks evolving into criminal behavior.

Teaching a child about responsible behavior begins at home. It is accomplished by setting a good example on a daily basis. Parents do this by being conscientious about exhibiting maturity in the ways they deal with other people, react to stressful situations, disagree with others, make choices, etc.

Parents can help their children grow into responsible adults by being a positive role model. Helping them learn how to think, feel, and act responsibly, and to pursue their own interests without becoming insensitive of the needs and feelings of others.

Accountability, fairness, honesty, courage, and respect toward self and others are important character traits. Many parents help instill these qualities by sharing deeply held religious and moral convictions with their children. Showing "why" these attributes are important as a foundation for ethical behavior, even when difficult or not materially rewarding.

Responsible behavior is a cultivated trait. It is a characteristic formed over time, made up of our outlook on life and daily habits. Responsible people behave that way whether or not anyone is watching, and regardless of how others may act.

There are several aspects of responsible behavior that should be highlighted to children. At the top of the list is Respect and Compassion toward others. This should be the corner stone for all other aspects of responsible behavior:

* Honesty
* Courage
* Self-control
* Self-respect.

Respect and Compassion: Responsible behavior is impossible apart from respect and compassion toward other people, as well as other life forms. Compassion dictates kindness and an unwillingness to intentionally cause suffering or pain. Respect dictates basic manners and consideration toward others. Concern is exhibited through both feelings and actions.

Honesty: To be honest means not only telling the truth to others; it means being honest with one's own self. It means making decisions based upon truth and evidence, not upon self-serving motives or prejudice.

Courage: When a person is courageous, they take a position and do what is right, even when there is risk involved. It means facing duties instead of behaving irresponsibly, recklessly, or carelessly.

Self-control: Self-control is the ability to act responsibly, and resist inappropriate behavior. It involves sticking to long-term commitments, and dealing with anger and other emotions in a responsible manner.

Self-respect: When a child is raised to be honest, courageous, and to exhibit self-control, they automatically learn to respect themselves. It is as they respond to people and circumstances in a responsible manner and learn to make responsible choices that they discover self-respect.

And it is self-respect that will hold your child in good stead as they grow, mature into adults, and then perhaps become responsible parents with children of their own to rear.

For specific ways to teach children responsible behavior, visit the Savvy Baby Gear web site.

 

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March 3, 2008

Teaching Your Child About Money At An Early Age You Are Doing Them A Huge Favor

By Robert Michael

Start by teaching your children to identify the different coins. This should be done at the beginning when the child is at a very young age. When you are out shopping with your child you can point out what money is used for and pointing out to them what is happening.

When your child gets to the elementary school age you might want to think about giving them an allowance on a weekly basis. This should be offered to each child. At this point it is not important how much the allowance is. Start teaching what appropriate uses of this money might be and what can happen if they spend their money in an irresponsible way. Now is a good time to express the importance of contributing part of their allowance to a charity or a local church. Teach your child why it is important to give to these organizations on a regular basis. There will come a time when your child will want to buy a specific item and you need to show them how many weeks they will need to save their allowance to be able to make that purchase.

Take your child to the grocery store with you to begin teaching your child the value of careful money management. Have your child look at different brands of the same product so they can figure out what would be the best value.

If you encourage your child to help with chores around the house this will help them learn a lot about money. Push your child to find ways to earn money.

Continue to give allowance to your children who are now teenagers but it should now be connected with household chores and other jobs they are obligated to complete.

In the late teenage years keep teaching your child about money by allowing your children to do the weekly grocery shopping, let them help put together a budget for a family vacations and teaching them how to fill out tax forms, if they are employed. Show your older teenage children how to obtain a small installment loan. This will help them learn the importance of a budget for regular financial responsibilities as well as help build their line of credit.

Your child will be much more prepared to be responsible with their money if you take the time now to teach your child how to manage their money.

Robert Michael is a writer for HB Babies which is an excellent place to find babies links, resources and articles. For more information go to: http://www.hbbabies.com

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February 27, 2008

Teaching Your Child About Money At An Early Age You Are Doing Them A Huge Favor

By Robert Michael

Start by teaching your children to identify the different coins. This should be done at the beginning when the child is at a very young age. When you are out shopping with your child you can point out what money is used for and pointing out to them what is happening.

When your child gets to the elementary school age you might want to think about giving them an allowance on a weekly basis. This should be offered to each child. At this point it is not important how much the allowance is. Start teaching what appropriate uses of this money might be and what can happen if they spend their money in an irresponsible way. Now is a good time to express the importance of contributing part of their allowance to a charity or a local church. Teach your child why it is important to give to these organizations on a regular basis. There will come a time when your child will want to buy a specific item and you need to show them how many weeks they will need to save their allowance to be able to make that purchase.

Take your child to the grocery store with you to begin teaching your child the value of careful money management. Have your child look at different brands of the same product so they can figure out what would be the best value.

If you encourage your child to help with chores around the house this will help them learn a lot about money. Push your child to find ways to earn money.

Continue to give allowance to your children who are now teenagers but it should now be connected with household chores and other jobs they are obligated to complete.

In the late teenage years keep teaching your child about money by allowing your children to do the weekly grocery shopping, let them help put together a budget for a family vacations and teaching them how to fill out tax forms, if they are employed. Show your older teenage children how to obtain a small installment loan. This will help them learn the importance of a budget for regular financial responsibilities as well as help build their line of credit.

Your child will be much more prepared to be responsible with their money if you take the time now to teach your child how to manage their money.

Robert Michael is a writer for HB Babies which is an excellent place to find babies links, resources and articles. For more information go to: http://www.hbbabies.com

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December 27, 2007

Bipolar Disorder Behavior - Symptoms that Signal Bipolar Disorder Behavior

By Caleb Liu

While there are common symptoms that may indicate a person has bipolar disorder, each person is different. Therefore the particular symptoms they will exhibit and to the degree they have them depends on the person. This means there is no cookie cutter approach that is going to work for taking care of the disorder.

Bipolar disorder behavior can come on suddenly in both men and women. It is also known to affect young children and teenagers. The average age for bipolar disorder is approximately 25. There is plenty of research to indicate bipolar disorder behavior may be hereditary in nature.

Anyone who is affiliated with bipolar disorder often feels like they are living on a roller coaster that just keeps going up and down without any chance to get off the ride. The emotions that vary from one extreme to another are very hard for a person with bipolar to deal with on a daily basis.

These behaviors are certainly anything but normal and they can affect a person's personal relationships and career. It is very important to understand the behaviors a person with bipolar disorder exhibits aren't restricted to affecting only them. Their family suffers an emotional strain and in many cases financial stressors as well.

The two extremes of bipolar disorder behavior are mania and depression. Their behavior may fall anywhere between the two spectrums. When an individual is in a manic phase they are very unpredictable and act irresponsibly. This can cause them to be in a dangerous situation as well as put others around them at risk. Common behaviors during maniac episode include drinking excessively, taking drugs, and risky sexual behaviors.

As the person shifts into a depression mode they often start to experience psychotic episodes. They may become very paranoid because they hear voices, experience hallucinations, and they may believe they have a special power. They may feel very sad one moment and ecstatic the next.

Anyone who is trying to live a normal life and go to work each day has a hard time doing so with such extreme mood swings. Many people who suffer from bipolar disorder behavior don't realize it and they have never been diagnosed. Yet they can't seem to maintain personal relationships or hold a job.

There is no cure for bipolar disorder but with the right combination of medication and therapy it can be controlled. Many people with bipolar disorder are able to function at a normal level under the supervision of a doctor.

If you found this information on Bipolar Disorder Behavior useful, you'll want to read this article about Famous People with Bipolar.

 

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June 18, 2008

Another Life For Baby And Child Clothing

By Michelle Bery

Keeping up with baby and child clothing is like everything else that has to do with raising kids; it feels like youre always one step behind. Getting new clothes - however expensive - is the easy part. Knowing what to do with the baby and child clothing left behind can be what is tricky. Hand-me-downs are great and if youre able to put away some of the more gently used clothes for your smaller children then it will certainly save you quite a bit of money. But when youre dealing with a youngest or only child, the options are varied.

When in doubt about what do with baby and child clothing, think charity first. There are a great many reputable organizations that vastly appreciate any donations of baby and child clothing. Many of these noble groups deal with families who have very little and clothing - especially baby and child clothing - can make an enormous difference for them. Of course, you can always stay local and identify a family close-by who may appreciate some extra clothing. Additionally, keep in mind that charitable donations are tax deductible at the end of the year.

If youre in need of some extra money yourself, you may consider selling your outgrown baby and child clothing. There are several ways to go about this. First, many people choose to hold periodic yard sales where they offer household items and clothing. This can be a great way to reduce clutter in your home on a frequent basis and make some cash at the same time. Some neighbors even ban together on a yearly basis to organize a large yard sale; baby and child clothing, as you would expect, is a hot commodity. Just be sure that you are offering gently used, stain-free clothing for sale.

Another option for the sale of baby and child clothing is the use of consignment shops. Consignment shops allow you to bring your outgrown baby and child clothing to them, and if they accept it based on factors such as wear-and-tear and cleanliness, then they will offer it for sale in their store. Ultimately, you make a percentage of the sale. Consignment shops even exist online; there are now local stores that will accept and photograph your clothing and then offer it for sale on the Internet. Again, the successful sale of these clothes means cash in your pocket.

In the end, your baby and child clothing can be just as special to someone else as it has been to you. Think twice before you condemn it to the trash; consider ways in which you can recycle these outgrown clothes.

For easy to understand, in depth information about baby clothing visit our ezGuide 2 Baby Clothing.

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November 24, 2007

Fitness and Exercise For Children

By Barbara King

Fitness and exercise are important. We all know that, and had that lesson drummed into our heads in school. But, how much attention do we pay to our children when it comes to fitness and exercise? In our modern day, too many children spend the majority of their time either on the couch in front of the television, or in their rooms on a computer or playing a video game. Fitness and exercise, a natural part of childhood in past generations, is something that the modern child and the modern parent have to work at on a daily basis.

If your child is lacking in fitness and exercise think about enrolling your child in an after school sports program of some sort. Soccer is a popular fitness and exercise method, and in the proper season so is hockey, softball, baseball, lacrosse, football, tennis, and even golf. Many parents find that their children enjoy swimming and as one of the best methods of fitness and exercise in the world, swimming should be encouraged. This can be simple playing or exercising in the water, or formal swimming laps in an Olympic sized pool. Both methods of fitness and exercise are great.

Those who live in rural areas may find fitness and exercise to be easier to come by than those who live in urban areas or in the suburbs. In a rural area, a child has fields to play in, woods to explore, and sports like fishing, as well as chores like feeding livestock. For the rural lifestyle fitness and exercise is more ingrained. For children living in the city, fitness and exercise can be explored at the nature center, at the Y or health club, and with after school activities. Even simple games like four squares and playing with a jump rope can be good forms of fitness and exercise.

Wintertime seems to be a time when many people, both children and adult, forsake their fitness and exercise programs. That is too bad because that makes it all that much harder to get back into shape when spring comes around. Fitness and exercise is something that should be pursued all year long. During the winter sports that keep a person indoors, like bowling, are good choices. Also indoor health clubs and activities like mall walking in groups are good choices for fitness and exercise. Whether a person is a child or an adult, fitness and exercise should not be overlooked.

Barbara is owner and operator of A Moms Shop You can find outdoor play equipment, bicycles and wheel toys as well as plenty of indoor toys and activity games.

 

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June 16, 2008

What Is Behavioral Therapy For Autism

By Sandra Kim Leong

You would probably find that your autistic child will often challenge your parenting skills by exhibiting extremes in behavior. Extremes of behavior would include such things as temper tantrums, self injurious behavior, aggression and agitation. Essentially, he is dictating to you what he wants and his preferences. If he does not get what he wants, you are made to suffer the consequences. Rather than giving in, you should in fact learn how to teach your child a more appropriate way in which to get what he wants.

This is where a consistent program of behavioral modification comes in. You can learn how to cope with the behavior of your child and also guide him to more socially appropriate behaviors. An autistic child usually has no sense of social awareness. Such a program must consist of 4 components: a structured daily routine; behavioral control; communication; and applied behavioral analysis.

You should design a structured daily routine as your autistic child can have an idea what to expect. It has been found that autistic children do not usually cope well with inconsistency or change. Therefore, sticking to a daily routine is important as much as possible.

The next thing that a parent must learn is how to control tantrums and other such behavioral issues. In doing so there are 3 factors to bear in mind:

1. Deal with those behaviors that are dangerous to the child or those around him first. You would need to stop these behaviors with firm words and actions. Try not to show your child any anger while doing this though.

2. You need to teach your autistic child how to sit down as it may not be easy for him to do so naturally. The best way in which to do this is to reward appropriate sitting behavior while either ignoring or giving a negative consequence for inappropriate sitting behavior.

3. Autistic children tend to have bizarre, stereotypical, repetitive behaviors. The most obvious of these are finger flapping and rocking. These can be very distracting and thus a firm command to stop is suggested for use. Next direct your child to another activity that will not allow him to continue these behaviors.

It is crucial that you talk to your child regularly. In your communication, be both simple and direct. You need to use short, clear sentences without going into explanations or using too many words. Shorten your instructions to manageable tasks. You want to avoid confusing him.

Applied behavioral analysis (ABA) is a form of behavioral therapy that is well recognized for its success rate of 47 percent. ABA involves breaking down tasks into individual components. Then, whenever a child successfully completes each step of the task he should be rewarded. However, it is important to note that ABA is not the only behavioral approach to treating autism nor is it a cure for autism. Still, it is a good option to consider in terms of helping your autistic child.

Sandra Kim Leong writes about autism diet and other therapies that may help an autistic child. As a mother to one herself, she shares about her experience. To read her posts, please visit http://www.autismdietplan.com

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